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I think we are approaching a state something like 'an even keel'. I think...

We got some cuddles in this week - daughter and grandson #2 visited on Wednesday. He is adorable. I know we're biased, and I know babies have to try REALLY hard not to be cute - but he is definitely the cutest baby alive :D

My first rag doll clown has a body, just need to stuff it - then, add hair and face. Then move on to the second :)

It's really been a slow week :D
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 Really nothing to report.

I haven't got round to another episode of The Lost Kingdom.  I watched Batwoman, A House Through Time, and Have I Got News For You.  And a couple of episodes of The Private Lives of the Monarchs - but only two recorded for some reason.  But, based on last week's criteria, I can go back to TLK, I think.

The alternate presentation of the portfolio received a lukewarm reception but mostly because it isn't visible on a single screen.  I'm exploring the O365 version of MSProject, which looks a WHOLE lot more helpful than previous versions.  I've always found Project to be overloaded with features I don't need but have to negotiate in order to do anything with it.  It's sort of the equivalent of having the Lionheart when you're below Level 10 and facing a Geezard.  But the new version has drag-and-drop and Kanban - at least that's what I remember from the short how-to videos.  I have some time next week to look at it in more depth.

More shinies!!!

Daughter & co were here for the Bank Holiday - we sat at opposite ends of the garden and it was good to see them.  But weird, too.

And mother and step-father are coming on Thursday for coffee and cake in the garden.

So grateful for our outdoor space.

I bought a bird feeder that sits inside a cage.  It promised that small birds could get to the food but larger ones can't.  I saw a robin trying to get in and not being able to.  The son snipped off some of the bars to give them a way in, but I don't think anything's been near it, since.  So, just a gimmick, really.  Also, I'm not sure the seeds are the most appetising thing to offer!  Especially when the suet logs are there - although the magpies steal those.  Anyway, I'm going to invest in a couple of peanut holders but I'll get some suet pellets for one - without cages.  And some more suet logs, because those are almost all gone, now.

Well, that's all for now.  Tune in next week for more excitement!
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One of the things I will miss when I leave the University is getting almost two 'free' weeks' leave over Christmas.  I topped up the time with two leave days to make it a complete two weeks.  Our leave allowance is VERY generous, I have to admit.  But it doesn't make up for shitty treatment of good people.  Next week, the quest for finding out how other organisations shit on their good people begins in earnest.

I am also on a semi-mission to complete '70x700', which in just over 5 years hasn't even reached the half-way point.  The plan is to knock off a story a week, perhaps even skipping Nano if it's going really well.  Next year, I edit and publish.

And talking of publishing, I want to wrangle the e-version of 'Mannerley' into shape, so I can call that one 'done-done'.  I have made almost £10 out of the physical copy, which I am very pleased about.  Making money was never the point, though - all I ever wanted was to hold MY book in my hands.  Any money I make from it is just a nice bonus.

Today, I am going to properly enter the 21st Century with a decent contract 'phone, one that can cope with an app or two - or even ten!

My hols have been an exercise in literally recharging myself from 0%.  I was running on emergency power the last few days in work, then was plugged in to my charger to get me through Christmas Eve and Christmas Day.  I remained plugged in and doing VERY little for the rest of last week.  This week, I have been using wireless charging in the form of gaming, TV, walks, chats with the boys, and housework, and I am most definitely ALMOST at 100%, now.  I think I need to get back into my regular routine to get to full-charge.  I have also followed my morning routine (meditation and reflective reading - but no writing) every day, which keeps my brain in the groove.  As for housework, it's surprising how invigorating something like sorting out a few cupboards can be!

Yeah, nothing amazing going on at the moment - but the quiet plod is quite enough at the moment!
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 So this weekend produced a grand total of 1022 words.  Saturday I wrote a couple of sentences just for the sake of updating my word count.  There is a trophy for updating every day for 30 days.  Now, if I finish early I will say, 'sod your trophy' and just finish.  BUT if I finish on 30 November, I do not want to have missed the trophy because of a slow day.  That's my justification, anyway...

The grandson was sick on Saturday night but not asking to go home, so I messaged the daughter asking her to come and pick him up as early as poss on Sunday so that he could spend the day at home.  She rocked up at about 12pm and stayed until 4pm.  I was not inviting her for the afternoon, I was asking her to take her sick child home!  As it turned out, he was pretty much recovered and spent the day on the laptop.  But that wasn't really the point.

I managed to churn out about 1k in the afternoon but in the evening I ducked out of writing in favour of Voyager.  This morning, I was well and truly back on the trail with another 1k, so my total is now just over 32k.  Another 1k tonight and I'll only be a little bit behind the target of 33,333.  Hopefully, I can keep up the 2k/day average from now on, which should see me finish on 29 November.

I am still enjoying Voyager, although I finding one episode at a time is enough.  With other series, I normally watch two back-to-back.  Some of the writing is a bit...  Well, there's an episode called Emanations, which involves a fascinating (for me at least!) premise around the afterlife.  Harry gets accidentally transported to another dimension and escapes by pretending to be a member of the alien race who is about to be euthanized. This requires Harry to 'disappear' but there is no search for him and the alien to actually disappear but we aren't shown how he manages this. The ceremony for the alien goes ahead without any explanation and without any apparent search for Harry.  I don't like plot holes.  They bother me.

In other news, this week looks like being a quiet one, so I shall make the most of it!
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 Just watched the final episode of 'Little Boy Blue', a dramatization of the real life events following the death of Rhys Jones in Liverpool in 2007. He was the same age as my grandson, getting ready to go to senior school after the summer holidays. He was shot, accidentally, by a member of a local gang who was firing at members of a rival gang. It's left me feeling...

Feeling what? Just feeling. His parents' loss is unfathomable. How do you even begin to get over something like that? They managed to support each other through the investigation and trial but then it fell apart. I can imagine them holding it together, then just not knowing what to do, how to move on. They split up for a while but are now back together. I'm so glad.

You don't know how you'll cope with a tragedy until it happens. Thankfully, my young ones are all safe and well, my husband is here, we're a family.

But what of my sister-in-law's kids, scattered to the winds? What of her brother who lost his father too young and his mother by default?

What of my mother, finding her husband dead by his own hand? Another accident, but just as final as if it were deliberate. Auto-erotic asphyxiation - how did he even know about it? Who on earth first tried that?!

And what would my life had been if he had lived? Where would I be? Who would I be?

Impossible questions. The only answer is, 'somewhere else, someone else' - possibly married but probably not with the family I have now. A different life, neither better nor worse; just different.

He was always present in his absence, always a part of my psyche, although I barely knew him and have no memory of him. An influence on my development, my growth, my self.

But this post was prompted by the tragic loss of an innocent child, not that of a grown man who should have known better.

He lives on in the memory of his family and all who knew him.

RIP Rhys.




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